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Posted by joann on 7/6/2008, 12:41 am, in reply to "Be careful when you choose internet friends"
My dear Pat;
I happen to pop in tonight just to read the posts as i have not been able to get to visit here for a bit and i read your post.
I want to just say God Bless You and make you strong. I don't know what situation you got involved in that hurt you but cyberspace is no better or worst than the people we meet and learn to interact with. No one can put limataions on what we do or say or why we do or say it or how and if we do or say it except our selves and no one including ourselves can put expectations on any experiences --good or bad.
We give of ourselves with our hearts and can't in good consiences expect any thing in return wheither our experiences are good or bad. I have met so many wonderful people on line --some of them are like family --some i met here on these boards; others i met thur family or friends or thru the things i have been thru but none of these friends do i expect or want to owe me anything not even their friendship or kindness unless it is given with no expectations back. because i am me and what comes from me wheither its friendship,kindness or smypathy or just plain acquantcese is from my inner being ,my core.my heart.
You must realize and know, one can not even expect family to be support in any situation unless it comes from their heart.and a want to, to do it.
I feel so bad that you got hurt from someone or something you gave your heart and soul into but look at it as an experience you know not to repeat in the same way and if you reach out and touch someone that you can only hope that someone is kind enought to be someone that will touch back with no wants or expectations except what it is and that should be a caring shoulder if they need it, a hug if they need and want it and a hope that it become a lasting friendship but know it can't have any holds ,
life is what we make it and if giving with any hope of getting something back is in the picture than you will get hurt because its a friendship with a strangle hold and never does these work.
my long windedness needs to stop. know you are a dear person and nothing given from the heart is a lost but please step back and reavailuate the situations and maybe you will see a better outcome to it all.
anyway dear lady hugs and love
yours JoAnn
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